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Sunday 13 June 2021

Recap: 177th Chapter Meeting - 12th June 2021

 


Starting with the Sergeant at Arms (SAA), Audrey Lim, the meeting started with a simple question. It was,” Have you been vaccinated?” This was a simple question, and everyone began sharing about themselves and whether they have been vaccinated, if not why they would or would not prefer putting the vaccine. Some even shared that they stepped up to put the vaccine because most of their friends had already got a jab. And most of them said that the second jab was quite uncomfortable and hurt for a few days. But I think the thought in everyone’s mind was to protect themselves and others around them. One of the members also shared that we should be lucky to live in a country like Singapore because it only took a good fifteen minutes to get a COVID-19 jab in the community club! I also suggest that we should not be complacent and keep ourselves at home and that all of us should go get our jabs once the vaccines for our respective age group have been released.


The next segment was the introduction by the Toastmaster of the Day (TMD), Zhou Siying, who used beautiful vocabulary to engage the members in her introduction about the speakers. She also advised us to use good vocabulary because the there would be Language Evaluation and the Ah Counter’s report. Hehe. Think of that! Then Club President, Rusman Hadijanto, shared his speech with us, saying that networking was very important because the relationship in the community was also very important. He got inspired by inspirational books, movies and also some videos. He shared that we should always look at the bright side for a solution when we have problems, and we should forgive ourselves. His speech was very interesting sharing about himself and what he thinks about inspirational things. He also reminded us to be motivated at all times.


So, icebreaker done, President’s speech done, what next? The Word of the Day! Language Evaluator, Thomas Chen, shared ‘Elucidate’ which means to make clear or explain something. Next, the prepared speech segment started of with Toastmaster Chiam Young, share about making changes to ourselves to the environment. He said that the future is determined by the present which is definitely true. His speech was mainly about change. The next speaker was Rusman Hadijanto, his speech which was about understanding his leadership style. He grew up back in Indonesia where he was taught that leaders were people with money and ordered people around, but he soon found out that money did not solve problems and he understood that leaders do not need to be wealthy to be leaders. So, he continued about his leadership style and leaders around the world like Jesus Christ, Mahatma Gandhi and a few more.


Next, we went to speaker Marc Wong, where he shared about making money in the ancient world and the modern world. He said he saw American YouTuber Ryan who was a 9-year-old boy who was earning $26,000,000. He said that he felt like a soldier with a sword and shield. He wanted to work on improvement on your brand. He said that if there is something a kid can do, why can’t I? Next speaker, Valliappan Selvamani, shared about his communication style. He mentioned four different communication styles. Direct, Initiative, Supportive and Analytical communication styles. His favorite style was Initiating style where he once reconnected a pair of friends after 25-30 years! He said that we cannot use the same communication style everywhere. He ended up saying that” Please use the supporting style to your wife, because if you don’t, that’s not my problem!” I loved the way he said it. Very innocent…


The next segment was the Table Topics segment by Table Topics Master (TTM), Flaming Chew. The segment started with Toastmaster Pratyush Gupta, and then moved on to SAA Audrey Lim. Then, I (Kavin) spoke, then Salma Begum shared about criticism. And after that, Toastmaster KS Rajan and TMD Zhou Siying spoke. We then proceeded to the delicious Evaluation segment, which was presented by four expert Evaluators, Tang Keen Yeen, Jenny Au, Annie Goh & Tay Yiang Ping. After this, we had a workshop on Difference in preparation for Humorous and International Speech Contests by wonderful speaker Salma Begum. She said that, “International speeches are mostly inspirational, and takeaways from inspirational platforms. Humorous speeches are funny but not a series of one-liners. You need to make the audience feel superior than you. You can talk about funny moments in your life.” She shared how she prepared for International and Humorous Speeches. She also mentioned that for the international speech, you need to convey exactly what the main message that you want to share with the audience. “For the Humorous speech, think of the funny stories in your life. Think on how to exaggerate it. Avoid repetition & reduce laughter impact. Test the jokes in your Humorous Speech with your family or your friends.” She openly shared the mistakes she made in her contests. She said that for the Humorous Speech, the audience should laugh naturally, you cannot force them to, if they do not. In the international Speech, she did not use relatable topics. The final takeaway is that ‘do not be distracted by the competition’. Enjoy the process of the delivery of the speech and do not focus on winning, the trophies would come or would not come, but that does not matter.


Next, we had the Ah Counter report presented by Helena Lim and the Language Evaluation presented by Thomas Chen who extraordinarily evaluated everyone’s grammatical and spelling or pronunciation mistakes and evaluated the use of the Word of the Day, ‘Elucidate’. Then we had General Evaluator Fan Li evaluate the whole meeting. Finally, to close the meeting, we had the awards presentation by Club President, Rusman Hadijanto. I congratulate all the winners:

Best Speaker - Valliappan Selvamani

Best Evaluator - Jenny Au

Best Table Topics - Salma Begum


Written by: Kavin, Guest of the Club

Wednesday 9 June 2021

Kevin Cottam's "The Nomadic Mindset UNCOVERED" Workshop

There is no beginning to your journey (to who you are)

There is no ending to your journey (to who you are)

You are migrating to expansion.

Here are the paradigm shift questions. As a Toastmaster, what is challenging you in your speaking journey? Are there worthwhile behaviors that are lost and need to be brought back? For example, your initial enthusiasm and efforts to be a better public speaker. Are these lost on you as time goes by? If yes, would you consider migrating to bring it all back over and above?

Professional Speaker, Executive Coach and Author Kevin Cottam, PCC, ACS, posed these thought provoking questions and went on to seek opinions from the participants on the true meaning of NOMAD. Most replied to the likes of "moving from place to place .....".

No. Its actually "the movement of the mind", quoting from Batgerel Bat, someone Kevin met in his own awesome journey.

There are three mindsets. Namely: Nomadic, Builder and Settler. These change from time to time, with one dominant or take precedence over the others in the moment.

Given a hypothetical situation: An annual conference to be organized by Anchorvale CC Toastmasters Club is in consideration. A settler in the Club will want to assume no risk and choose not to take it up. Another member, a builder, will want to take action and aspire to have the conference to be held on time and under budget. A nomadic in the Club will be adventurous and seek to look out for new frontiers and hence explore possibilities. For example, nomads are excited to leverage on the most technologically advanced digital devices to outreach to bigger masses to join the annual conference. From the neuroscience perspective, a builder thinks in the head, a settler thinks in the heart, whereas the nomadic thinks in the gut.

"Think Vastly, Act Narrowly", quote from Binderiya, a Student at the National University of Mongolia, from the book, The Nomadic Mindset.

Kevin later shared more of his own personal journey to highlight the importance of having a nomadic mindset. His childhood days were spent in the west coast of Canada. Moving on, he later went to the city to study figure skating. He did well and became a Canadian champion in figure skating. Moving further on, he later took up a dancing job in New York, then at Moulin Rouge in Paris. Moving on again, he went back to Canada as a figure skating choreographer, then figure skating coach, then speaker, before eventually becoming an author. His stint in Mongolia is where The Nomadic Mindset came about. He learned from the nomads, "migrate is for survival, for a better life". That is when he come to realize he is not running away, being crazy going for the unknown after accomplishing much in the earlier pursue. He is simply running towards expansion, evolution and growth. Looking back, he can well connect the dots now.

"You must be ready to learn how difficult this situation is...... the difficult truth." - Benson Muntere, Maasai Warrior from Kenya.

That, in essence, is to face the lion.....

The ongoing pandemic and Toastmasters are helping us to evolve, by facing the lion; to take on much needed leadership roles. Do keep that movement of the mind. Do not put the mind within restrictive barriers. Be courageous by being still, alert, curious, a listener and an observer. Henceforth, to be a better person, a better speaker. This, is the message Kevin is conveying to all of us.


Do check out this awesome book, The Nomadic Mindset: Never Settle … for Too Long, by Kevin Cottam. It is a leadership book for adventurous, courageous, and bold leaders. It is based on harvesting the ancient wisdom, qualities, and mindset of nomadic cultures as a new way to lead successful, engaged organizations. Also click on the YouTube video below for a short introduction to this book.


Written by Wee Chee Sian, ACB, ALB